Fixes #36581.

This fixes an issue where validations would return differently when a previously saved invalid association was loaded between calls:

    assert_equal true, squeak.valid?
    assert_equal true, squeak.mouse.present?
    assert_equal true, squeak.valid?

Here the second assert would return

    Expected: true
    Actual: false

Limiting validations to associations that would be normally saved (using autosave: true) due to changes means that loading invalid associated relations will not change the return value of the parent relations's `valid?` method.